Today I share with the sorella-hood a simple observation as a mum in the school yard on a Thursday morning. My daughter has started Prep and today I was able to take my time dropping her to the classroom.
We took a leisurely stroll through the playground. As the “BIG” boys ran past she cowered in to me clenching my hand tight. I am a highschool teacher so to me these boys are babies, but to my little preppy I could understand how to her the stomping of their school shoes on the concrete as they zoomed past us, would be quite frightening.
We stood in silence on the edge of the oval and watched the children play. What I observed was THAT obvious that it really was drawn to my attention.
It was amazing to watch the stereotypical body language of these young souls. The girls insecure, following the pack like little lost sheep fearful that if they lose their friends for a moment they would be lost forever. The boys ruggedly tackling eachother and running away, pointing, pushing, shoving, laughing and chasing. Even more humorous the girls laughing at the boys, giggling and whispering about them, trying to get their attention but also rolling eyes and being oh so much more mature. The boys, knowing full well they were being watched, but not giving the girls any attention and continuing on their high energy adventure. I am well aware that avoiding ‘boys germs’ begins at an early age, but I guess I was a bit surprised to see that these typical behaviors, I see in the high school yard as an educator, begin at such a young age.







